Thursday, March 25, 2010
Sex, Sex, SEX!!!!!
I want to first off apologize for it taking so long for this to get out. Ive been working between 40-50 hours a week, and taking classes... I know I've said it before so I am just going to say to my fans I thank you for sticking with me it means a lot.
So as you all know, I love sex. Its why I love that I have gotten many opportunities to get paid to do it, because it is something I enjoy a lot. I've always wanted to explain to all my readers and get their feedback on how i view sex. I view sex as something that can happen on 4 different levels.
1. Hookup/Bathhouse/Work sex
2. Friend Sex
3. Sex with Feelings
4. Love Making
1. Hookup/Bathhouse/Work Sex
This kind of sex is pretty self explanatory. It generally does no involve feelings and generally is only good for gratification right here and now and leaves no lasting effect. I have had some really good sex like this (my scene with Rad Matthews, and my Broke Straight boys scenes) and some really bad sex like this. I have come to learn that a lot of gay guys only like this kind of sex. It is my least favorite
2. Friend Sex
This is the kind of sex that involves friends with benefits and can sometimes involve feelings but generally does not. I can't really give much details with this because I don't have this kind of sex because it makes friendships really awkward in my opinion. For a lot of people this is the only thing that gets them off though.
3. Sex with Feelings
This kind of sex is pretty self explanatory, its sex that involves feelings. Its more than a hook up because if you are having this kind of sex you hope and/or plan to keep the person you're having sex with around for a good bit. This is the most tricky sex in my opinion because sometimes one of the people is having this kind of sex while the other may think its a hookup or sex with friends kind of thing. I am the worst person that unless it is clearly expressed as a hook up I will assume it is sex with feelings. I love sex just as much as the next guy, but I do my best to have the sex I have outside of work mean something. That may make me sound like a dumb twink, but okay with being a dumb twink if it means I get to have great sex. Sex with feelings usually ends up being worlds better than Sex with friends or Sex as a hook up.
4. Love making
This kind of sex again is self explanatory. Love making, in my opinion, generally takes love planning but when it takes you by suprise it is the best sex of all. For me, this kind of sex is where the real orgasms are at. Knowing the person you are having sex loves you just makes my whole body shiver and makes me moan extra loudly. I have luckily been blessed to have love making with two people life. I have talked with people who are much older who have never experienced this kind of sex. Giving yourself to one so completely that only they and you having sex matters can be risky but it so more than worth it. I recommend everyone have love making as much and as often as they can.
I may have a favorite kind of sex, but in the end any kind of sex is still worth it in my opinion, as long as you are being safe and having fun. No one deserves a shortened life because of an orgasm. Please, please, please know I may love sex and have it often, but I am always safe in hopes that I can entertain people for many years to come.
I would love to hear your thoughts on all of these and know what your favorite kind of sex is. So please leave comments so we can start a good discussion.
Love you bitches!
Aiden <3
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
I Am Sorry!
Okay, Okay, Okay, So maybe I underestimated the amount of time and effort this internship was going to take! (Shouldn't they pay you more if you work your butt off?) And like I did tweet I'm going to put a more thought out blog up once I've proofed it a bit but I just thought I'd say 'Hello! I'm Alive.' And I'd just answer a few blog comments.
I have taken the advice of one guy and made it where I don't have to moderate what is said. That way there can be more discussions going on.
Logan's Helga Von 'Unt blog is alright. I wouldn't call it hilarious but I think it is him when he is drunk bitching about stuff in our circle of friends. I'm interested to see if he continues to write it or he lets it go to wayside.
I'd also like to wish Logan a Happy Belated 25th Birthday and a speedy surgery recovery. (He had surgery on the 17th to remove some Polyps on his vocal cords lets all hope they're not cancerous.) It's completely changed his voice too! He now has this booming deep voice its scary.
I'm doing well myself. I'm really enjoying Florida and the weather! I just work so much! Its not unusual that I pull a ten hour plus day and that usually will be all the shifts I do in a week. Nine hours one day, ten the next, twelve the next. Thank God for days off! The real balancing act is that I'm enrolled in classes back in Houston so I have to do that on my days and try to work fun into my schedule for the sake of my own sanity!
I have not abandoned the porn world. It is still something that I have in my life and I'm still in touch with my contacts. Unfortunately porn careers don't last forever and rumor is that twink careers are even shorter so I have to focus on things sometimes that will prep me for life after porn. So that's where I am at right now. Though I was really thrilled to be made fun of by Zach Sire today. Though I have a feeling covering myself in food product will haunt me the rest of my life! (But I had really good sex after the "shoot" thats all that matters.) And for the record Diesel made me his arch-nemesis. I never raised my voice at the big loveable teddy bear!
To all my Houston boys: Mason, Marcus, Porter, Logan. - - Etc, Etc, Etc : I miss you guys and you better come out visit me soon! We'll go to the beach and to the bars and play Window Bingo at Parliament House!
I will post a blog of more substance once I proof it a bit.
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Love,
Aiden
Love,
Aiden
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