Thursday, March 25, 2010

Sex, Sex, SEX!!!!!


I want to first off apologize for it taking so long for this to get out. Ive been working between 40-50 hours a week, and taking classes... I know I've said it before so I am just going to say to my fans I thank you for sticking with me it means a lot.

So as you all know, I love sex. Its why I love that I have gotten many opportunities to get paid to do it, because it is something I enjoy a lot. I've always wanted to explain to all my readers and get their feedback on how i view sex. I view sex as something that can happen on 4 different levels.

1. Hookup/Bathhouse/Work sex
2. Friend Sex
3. Sex with Feelings
4. Love Making


1. Hookup/Bathhouse/Work Sex

This kind of sex is pretty self explanatory. It generally does no involve feelings and generally is only good for gratification right here and now and leaves no lasting effect. I have had some really good sex like this (my scene with Rad Matthews, and my Broke Straight boys scenes) and some really bad sex like this. I have come to learn that a lot of gay guys only like this kind of sex. It is my least favorite

2. Friend Sex


This is the kind of sex that involves friends with benefits and can sometimes involve feelings but generally does not. I can't really give much details with this because I don't have this kind of sex because it makes friendships really awkward in my opinion. For a lot of people this is the only thing that gets them off though.

3. Sex with Feelings

This kind of sex is pretty self explanatory, its sex that involves feelings. Its more than a hook up because if you are having this kind of sex you hope and/or plan to keep the person you're having sex with around for a good bit. This is the most tricky sex in my opinion because sometimes one of the people is having this kind of sex while the other may think its a hookup or sex with friends kind of thing. I am the worst person that unless it is clearly expressed as a hook up I will assume it is sex with feelings. I love sex just as much as the next guy, but I do my best to have the sex I have outside of work mean something. That may make me sound like a dumb twink, but okay with being a dumb twink if it means I get to have great sex. Sex with feelings usually ends up being worlds better than Sex with friends or Sex as a hook up.

4. Love making

This kind of sex again is self explanatory. Love making, in my opinion, generally takes love planning but when it takes you by suprise it is the best sex of all. For me, this kind of sex is where the real orgasms are at. Knowing the person you are having sex loves you just makes my whole body shiver and makes me moan extra loudly. I have luckily been blessed to have love making with two people life. I have talked with people who are much older who have never experienced this kind of sex. Giving yourself to one so completely that only they and you having sex matters can be risky but it so more than worth it. I recommend everyone have love making as much and as often as they can.

I may have a favorite kind of sex, but in the end any kind of sex is still worth it in my opinion, as long as you are being safe and having fun. No one deserves a shortened life because of an orgasm. Please, please, please know I may love sex and have it often, but I am always safe in hopes that I can entertain people for many years to come.


I would love to hear your thoughts on all of these and know what your favorite kind of sex is. So please leave comments so we can start a good discussion.


Love you bitches!

Aiden <3

5 comments:

Mulch said...

YAY! I'm the first comment! :-) Anyway, I was actually just thinking about this earlier. Weird. I think your categories make sense, but I'm remaining quiet on where I fall within them. :-p

Woody said...

Number 4 is the best. I've never tried Number 1.

Anonymous said...

Safe sex is the only kind of sex to have but with that being sad. When one gives his heart to someone that one person alone can take you to hieghts of sexual pleasure that no one else can. As Aiden commented I dont have sex with friends for he is right that leads to trouble. Have I had hook up sex yes I will admit I wanted to get my rocks off and found a willing mouth to take my load right or wrong as soon as I blew my load I wanted it to be over with

Logan said...

The best sex is butt sex. The end.

omnipop = pop culture blog said...

Hey G,

I hope you're enjoying Orlando. I miss talking to you. You sound like you're doing well. Are you ever on Yahoo or AIM anymore? LOL

Hope to talk to ya soon,
GM
(The Guy Who Made Your Blog Banner)

P.S. Do ya still have the same number?

 
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