It's my blog and I'll bitch if I want to!
Dad: Are you purposely trying to hurt me?
Me: What do you mean?
Dad: You haven't called in 8 days!
Boys... Do you call your parents every time you turn around? Now don't get me wrong... I love my parents... But they cut contact with me for a year. Not the other way around. I tried to keep in touch and to make amends and I was told that I would eventually "Get AIDS and die." Now I really want to work things out with my Mom and Dad and I want to have that close relationship with them we once had... But... Time people! Time! Texts are sufficient are they not? Do you need a detailed report of everything I do every time I do it?
Why is this bothering me today? Logan and I aren't totally back together, but we are in a semi getting back together process. Working out our issues? I don't know what the hell to call it but it is what it is. But here is the issue...
My Mom and Logan are TEXTING!
Small talk!
Not real talk!
Small talk!
What do I do? They were talking about coffee and shopping!
I don't know what to do... Advice please!
Love Aiden
9 comments:
Aiden--
Call your parents once in a while, maybe once a week or so. And
don't worry so much about Logan and your mother texting! Like you say, it's just small talk.
You could give your parents the link to your blog then you wouldn't have to phone them. They'd know what you were doing. j/k.
I think it's really positive that your mom likes Logan though. If they worry about your health (although they expressed that in the least diplomatic way possible), I'm sure they'd rather see you in a steady relationship.
Aiden,
To have both of them talking/texting this is more than some of us could dream of happening. My partner and I were together for 8 years, of which the last two we lived together but separated. I have invited my parents to Tulsa on many occasions when they travel to see the rest of the family in Dallas. But my wonderful mother decides to drive hundreds of miles around me and down through Oklahoma City with nothing more than oops I forgot where you lived. Like the Christmas and Birthday Cards didn't list my/our address on them.
But I can totally see your point... It would kinda creep me out to know that my mother and my 'ex' were chatting away. On the other hand to have the person who has avoided me and my partner for all this time we were together to now want to be civil and talk, thast would throw me for a bit. But I would take it at face value and cherish it. My parents live and breath Fox News, Limbaugh, and O'Reilly. To them I am what gives the country all the problems. If they were to do what yours have done I wouldn't question it but support it. And I don't see mine changing unless I suddenly change and want vagina which isn't going to happen.
As far as Logan. Only you and he know what you want in a relationship. I would never want to assume from what I have read in your and his blogs. I can only wish that you two are able to work it out and if not, I hope you two can stay close friends. Ex's tend to either make the best friends or the worst enemies, who know all. Myself I would love to have mine back but he wants what he wants. And I would prefer a monogamous relationship.
To close, I want to wish you well. All my hopes that this turns out well. Take care.
Scott
so let me see if I get ya. You are mad because your Mom and Logan get along....lol.
Call your parents once every two weeks. It's will take no effort on your part and will make then happy.
Ok I've been through this before so I can give you some decent advice instead of the pc shit. Your mom is just building a trust with him to pry into your personal life. She knows what she's doing and she's counting on you not catching it. Trust that after raising you she knows you well enough to say the right things to wedge her insanity into most parts of your life if you give her the ground to stand on. I'll leave my email if you wanna discuss further...yeahidoitwell@hotmail.com
you are such a fucking sad side show you immature little cunt
Ok first I posted about your beddableboys scene- very nice.
Next I think your feelings are valid. They did and said some awful things and now they feel guilt no doubt.
But it is ok to set boundaries with them as an adult.
When I had my first real long term bf when I was 24 my mom had still had not gotten over her homophobia. Finally she came down to Florida and lo and behold she liked my bf. They became closer then me and her!
At first it bothered me but in retrospect it was god because it took all the stereotypes out of her head- she saw we were just like any other couple the only difference was Donald didn't have breasticles and a vagina.
So these days instead of referring to my current partner like she used to- "that guy you are messing around with" she addresses him by name and includes him in discussions.
Some maybe mom chatting up Logan is a good thing- it's her way of making up for what they now know was wrong and keeping you out of their life forv a year.
Aiden,
What ever you decide to do, ignore comments like the one Anonymous Dec. 6 made! And regarding what Joe Dec. 5 said, mothers sometimes are overprotective of their children--it's normal, don't worry too much about it.
Out of sight, out of mind.
In more ways than one.
I don't text.
It was meant for emergencies.
Now it's about secrecy and cheating.
Realslow..
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